Let's fight for our happiness by following a daily
programme of cheerful and constructive thinking. Here is such a programme. It
is entitled "Just for Today". I found this programme so inspiring; it
was written many years ago by the late Sibyl F. Partridge. If you and I follow
it, we will eliminate most of our worries and increase immeasurably our portion
of what the French call la joie de vivre-meaning
joy of life
Here it is:
1. Just for today I will be
happy. This assumes that what Abraham Lincoln said is true, that "most
folks are about as happy as they make up their minds to be." Happiness is
from within; it is not a matter of externals.
2. Just for today I will try to
adjust myself to what is and not try to adjust everything to my own desires. I
will take my family, my business, and my luck as they come and fit myself to
them.
3. Just for today I will take
care of my body. I will exercise it, care for it, nourish it, not abuse it nor
neglect it, so that it will be a perfect machine for my bidding.
4. Just for today I will try to
strengthen my mind. I will learn something useful. I will not be a mental
loafer. I will read something that requires effort, thought and concentration.
5. Just for today I will exercise
my soul in three ways: I will do somebody a good turn and not get found out. I
will do at least two things I don't want to do, as William James suggests, just
for exercise.
6. Just for today I will be
agreeable. I will look as well as I can, dress as becomingly as possible, talk
low, act courteously, be liberal with praise, criticize not at all, nor find
fault with anything and not try to regulate nor improve anyone.
7. Just for today I will try to
live through this day only, not to tackle my whole life problem at once. I can
do things for twelve hours that would appall me if I had to keep them up for a
lifetime.
8. Just for today I will have a
programme. I will write down what I expect to do every hour. I may not follow
it exactly, but I will have it. It will eliminate two pests, hurry and
indecision.
9. Just for today I will have a
quiet half-hour all by myself and relax. In this half-hour sometimes I will
think of God, so as to get a little more perspective into my life.
10. Just for today I will be
unafraid, especially I will not be afraid to be happy, to enjoy what is
beautiful, to love, and to believe that those I love, loves me.
Isn’t that a wonderful piece?
Nevertheless, please don’t simply read it and be entertained by it. Instead,
adopt it as your own plan of action. You see, when you have a plan you have
something to focus on, you have a vision, an understanding of how things will
be. This gives you hope and inspiration. It gives you the motivation to get
into action and do something.
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